ok mate, and yes we need the Login name not the Display Name. Your Display name shoudl be along the lines of TOG|Ysu to make it easier for all tog'rs to find you. Once you log into xFire and you have a TOGr in your contacts you will see a list called Friends of Friends, in here you will find heaps more Tog'rs too that you can add
Will update the list now with your login name mate.