I was also sent here by dixi_ms at The Women Gamers forum. I believe that I meet the criteria.
I am 28 years old, single with a boyfriend who is also a gamer. To pay the bills, I am a computer programmer, but for joy I work part-time as a dance instructor, teaching two classes of Beginning Modern Dance to children and adults.
I am currently addicted to World of Warcraft. My primary character is a Night Elf Huntress on Ner'Zhul; just turned 50 last night. She is called Belisama. In addition, though, I really enjoy playing Unreal Tournament, the Battlefield games and Call of Duty, as well as several other FPS games. I also like to play RTS, specifically the Age of Empires series and Generals. I just got Age of Empires 3, but because of my addiction I haven't played it that much.
I just want to say also, that what dixi_ms wrote to us at the Women Gamers, "One time some of my squad took off in a heli and remembered they had left me behind and came back under enemy fire to pick me up" completely sold me!

I have never played a game with anyone that showed that level of care and concern.
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