You are going around making your complaints the wrong way. Simply put. This may cause your complaints, not matter how valid, to fall on deaf ears. If you need to make a complaint, that you wish someone to actually pay attention to, then you need to follow the guidelines and go about it the right way, this forum isn't for trash talking about ToG members when something doesn't go your way.
Obviously, the game your having trouble with is BF2 Bad Company, and as such you need to contact the Division Captain, or Vice Captains - if you have a complaint to make about how the servers are administered.
The Current DC is is ReaperSmurf and you can contact him by clicking HERE
or alternativley you can contact Vice Captain C4 by clicking HERE
Please be aware, that most of our members have jobs, family and other responsabilities in real life - cutting down a lot of time for gaming and administration. So if you need to contact them, please make sure that you provide them with all the neccessary details, and outline of what happened and the names of who was involved - as well as any other information, that you think they will need to hear your complaint. This will cut down the time of traffic between conversations, so that the DC or Vice can ascertain what happened and root out the problem.
If you have any further issues, and have trouble contacting the Division Captain or Vice Captains about your problem - please feel free to shoot me a PM about it, and include all the valid information about what happened and I will see what I can do by posting in the private forums and contacting some of the admins to see if your problem can be resolved.