flight simulator for novice player
 

(win xp)
im looking for a flight simulator. i want to learn how to learn normal passenger airplanes.

-i'm very novice, i hardly know anything about controlling a plane
-all instructions on what steps i have to take must be explained by the simulator
-all instructions must be in game. im not gonna read some manual.
-i dont care about graphics, the quality of the game is more important
-a good simulator that resembles actual flying very much, and trains the user to be a good pilot

based on this, which games are good?